You know those people you see on social media, or in person, who are so ridiculously in love with their other half that it makes you want to puke your lungs out?
Yeah, that’s me I’m afraid.
I often get asked what the secret to a successful marriage is, and I usually reply with the typical series of clichés:
- You need to be best friends
- You should always be honest with each other
- No secrets
- Always put them first
Blah blah blah.
But, in truth, one of the major secrets to a successful marriage is affectionate verbal abuse….or, as comedian Micky Flanagan puts it, ‘Casual Cunting’.
So why am I sharing this advice with you? Well, here is a literal word for word interaction with my wife last night (sorry in advance, Mum).
Now, In order for this to make total sense, you need to know that my wife is a tiny 5’1″. OK, got it? Let’s continue…
So I was looking for a lighter and I couldn’t find it. We both looked everywhere and then suddenly my wife said:
“Oh, here it is in my hand”.
I rolled my eyes and jokingly barked, “How do you hide anything in those little dwarf hands!?”
To which she replied, “I can’t…….except yo’ dick!”
Not only did she get a full on high five as we sat there screaming with laughter, but I fell a little more in love with her.
So the real secret to a successful relationship? Don’t take it all so seriously. You’re clearly together because you’re in love (or the other person has a lot of money or whatever), so relax and enjoy being the casual cunts you are.